July 22, 2011

dedicated to Vinny






tank (f21) shorts (similar ones coming to bamboo sky soon!) cardigan & faith cuff (bamboo sky) luv ya bracelet (golden child via bamboo sky) necklace (gift from kelli via dolce) shoes (uo)

I was always apprehensive of how Vinny would react to me having a baby. After all, he's been the "only child" for 8 years now. Don't let his pint sized stature and perfectly coiffed puppy do fool you. Yes, he is THAT old. Like a newborn, I took him everywhere so surely he was accustomed to being the only apple of my eye. And, I depend on him just as much as he depends on me. I literally have a hard time falling asleep when he's not on my pillow where I can smell him. TRUE STORY! Anyone that knows me, can attest to this.

So naturally, I was very nervous about his "feelings" towards Willow prior to her arrival. Would he be jealous? Would he be territorial? Would he be vicious? Would he hate me? Could he love her? I was hopeful of the latter, but expected the former(s).

Enter Willow.

Needless to say, he may not love her (yet), but he has been a very, very good boy despite being placed in a temporary back seat. He is so patient and has accepted the fact that her needs come first. When Shane and I are ogling over or tending to her, he is always near but never interferes. And now, when we leave him at home (keep in mind, he accompanied us almost everywhere), he never hesitates to greet us with the utmost enthusiasm upon our return. As if unaffected by the change in routine. His love for us remains unconditional! The only time he reacts towards her is when she is crying. I like to think of his anxious whimpers and frantic circling as sincere concern for his sibling's well being. Shane on the other hand, thinks it's just annoying. Lol.

All in all, Vinny has truly been amazing to Willow. As I finish up this post, he sleeps peacefully on my pillow waiting for his mommy to join him. I love you my little buzzle man!

3 comments:

  1. Vinny!!! Tear. Seriously.. my eyes welled up after reading this. I'm such a softy. I feel the same way with Pooma. She is my dogter, after all. I think she'll have "issues" adjusting when the Pirate and I decide to have a human baby. Did I just say, human baby? LOL.

    On a sartorial note, I LOVE those shorts. Dang, I need to get my legs (and the rest of my body) in shape, so I can get a pair of those, when they become avail for purchase!

    xx Love & Aloha

    xx Love & Aloha

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  2. Girl...you look GREAT especially considering you just had a baby!! Lost all the weight. Work it girl!

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  3. Super, Super Cool gotta-have shorts, be looking out for them in new arrivals!

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